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Stop Judging People

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I have read some article and this is the real fact that especially in every school, they put people into groups and categories based on their looks like nerds, band geeks, popular, jocks, etc. and the “popular” are usually who put these people into these groups. When did these people get the power to make decisions? I believe that is small problem, but if nobody care it will be a big problem. Today the topic of my speech is “Stop Judging People”

Firstly, judging people is so dangerous because it can make hateful. There are four reason why we judge the other.  One, We are insecure. This is the main reason we judge. When we are insecure or unhappy with who we are, we try to put other people down. We want to feel good by making others feel bad. Two, We are scared.Often, when we’re scared by other people, we’ll put them down, for the example two women see a prettier woman as a threat and they make fun of her outfit. We also may fear those who are different from us and may judge them just because they are unlike us. Three, We are lonely. When you are lonely, you might use judgments to bond with other people, but these bonds are based on negativity. The bonds you have based on judging others are superficial and are not likely to contain true substance. Four, We are seeking change. When we want our own lives to be different, we are quick to judge the lives of others. For example, if someone wants to be in a committed relationship and his friend gets engaged, he might whisper, “Oh, that girl is so not right for him. I don’t know why they’re getting married.” If we are jealous of others’ changing lives we are likely to make quick judgments.

Secondly, I will give you some ways how to stop judging the other. One, Look for the positive. Judgments are negative. There is almost always something positive you can find in someone or something. While my mind might immediately focus on the negative and, of course, if you can’t find something nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Two, Focus on your own life. When all else fails and judgments are hard to push away, focus on yourself. Don’t worry about what other people are doing/wearing/etc. Think about your own life. Focus on what you want and go after it. When you’re trying to avoid your own problems, it’s easy to criticize others. Don’t. Think about you and focus on the good things. Four, Remember how it feels.Remember how it feels to be judged and remember how it felt the last time you judged someone else. It doesn’t feel good to judge or to be judged so put an end to it right now

To sum up, I believe that judging people is very dangerous and it can make hateful and rumor. Some people judge the other because they feel insecure, scared, and lonely. Other people do it because it became their habit. Be careful if judging the other became your habit, it likes you make enemies in your life. There are some ways that we can do to avoid judging the other. We should look and think positively, Focus on your own life, and Remember how it feel if you had judged by the other. When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.  Don’t Judge the Book from the Cover.

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